Thursday, December 22, 2016

David John Hall- BYU

Details of David John Hall
After my first semester of being an RA in David John Hall, I have learned something extremely important: IT IS SO DIFFERENT THAN THE REST OF HELEMAN!
So if you're a potential resident at Heleman Halls and looking into staying at David John, please read about what makes this hall so different from the rest of Heleman so that you can decide whether or not this living situation is a good fit for you. 

Trust me, this is a great place to live! Living in the dorms at BYU in itself is an amazing experience and definitely something to look forward to. After spending a year in Hinckley Hall and now living as an RA in David John Hall, I just thought it was important to clear up what it is really like. If you've found my blog, chances are that you were just like me as a high school senior: eager, excited, and wanting to start planning out exactly how I was going to set up my freshman dorm. If this is true, then you have probably found that there are no pictures anywhere of what the dorms look like aside from the 3 on BYU's website. HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO PLAN ON MY DORM ROOM WITH THOSE CRAPPY PICTURES? You're in luck! I am here to go into detail and clear up any concerns you might have. Also better pictures :)


What Does it Look Like?
For those of you who may already know you just want your own bathroom and don't care too much about anything if you don't like the way they look, this is for you. Pictures and explanations. 





I thought I would add this picture. It is what the hallway looks like. There are about 20 rooms or 10 suites per hallway and a "lounge" in the middle of the hall. This room has couches, a white board, cabinets, a sink, a microwave, toaster, trash can, rags, cleaning supplies, and an ironing board and iron. This is a really cool, unique feature to David John Hall.



The mini fridge can be seen on the desk in the picture on the left. This is how it will look when you move in, but most people buy an extension chord and put it between the beds or under a bed once it's lifted. The desk is identical on  both sides of the room. The shelves are able to be moved up and down on the track or removed altogether. You can kind of see it, but there is a bulletin board on the wall right next to the desk. All of the electrical outlets run along the wall on that strip under the shelf. This runs down the entire wall from the desk to the window on both sides. It might be smart to buy extension plugs to give yourself more mobility and accessibility with electricity.




Here is a close up of the desk. The drawers are heavy and the top one has a way to put a lock on it for valuables which is nice. The small one where the chair is pushed in is great. It has a divider in the front for pens and pencils and what have you and the rest is just open and goes almost all the way back. You can seriously fit so much in these drawers so if you're messy and have a lot of junk, I would invest in a few desk dividers or bins. There are also two drawers under the bed which are also deep and both can be locked. (you'll need your own combination lock) If you can see, under the bed there are two sets of longer legs that when you move in can be swung out, lifting your bed a couple extra feet. It's enough to fit the fridge under with little room between. It's important to note that if you put anything between the beds like the fridge, you will have difficulty opening the far drawer because the space between the beds is not much space. The mattresses are almost brand new and are plenty comfy, so don't feel like you need too much of a foam topper if you're into a soft bed, but you do you because I could literally sleep on anything and be comfy.




There is another shelving unit right above the bed as shown in the left picture. This can be moved up and down or if you wanted another shelf, you could move one of the shelves from above the desk. Once the bed is lifted, however, if the shelf is too low it can be easy to bump your head on it often. They are notorious for falling only when they have a lot of weight on them. I haven't heard of any problems with these shelves falling on anyone this year so just don't put your bowling ball on it and you'll be fine. The closets are located right when you walk in the room. One side will be two sets of two doors which open to a closet and the other side is the door to the bathroom. There is lighting just above the closets with a separate switch which is nice if you're getting ready early in the morning and your roommate is still snoozing. The shelves are adjustable but my main complaint with the closet is that there is barely any space to hang things up. I had to get creative this year, but it was doable. There are 4 drawers which are decently deep and I can fit a decent amount of clothing in them. The bottom drawer is a little different because it is twice as deep as the others. I put my pants in this one and I can fit all of my jeans and slacks with plenty of extra room. There is a towel rack on the door to the hanging side and a mirror above that. I also put a command hook on the other door and it holds my robe and hair towels and is still able to close. I needed extra drawers under my bed for my clothes, but I can also fit those drawers I got from Bed Bath and Beyond (see my later posts) in the closet between the shelves as well as on the floor under the rod. I use that one for shoes and it works really well for me.





Here is a quick view of the bathroom. There are two sinks, space under neath the sinks, those 3 shelves on either side of the mirror, a towel hook on the side of both shelves, a full length mirror on both doors, and a towel rack inside the bathroom part with the shower and toilet. That door locks. It is small. The door behind me in the picture on the right that opens up is the toilet and shower. The door blocks the toilet when it opens and the shower is across from it. So it's just about 3 feet wide and the shower is probably 3' by 3'. It's small, but it's the size of all the showers in the dorms. The biggest difference about David John is that you have your own bathroom in your room that you share with your roommate and the two girls who live next door to you. You must also clean this space. The other dorms are community bathrooms which are cleaned for you, but the bathrooms are a part of your monthly cleaning check. Some supplies are provided, but you will want to get some of your own as well. You also have to provide your own toilet paper between the 4 of you living in the suite. These are not falling apart. They are old, but they are well taken care of. 

My Personal Thoughts
David John is a great place to live. If you like being in close quarters with more people and you can keep your space tidy, then this is a good fit. If you're worried about moving out for the first time, are super messy, don't know how to clean or can't get along with other people easily, this may not be the place for you. From what I've seen, you tend to get extremely close with the three other girls you live with and possibly some others on the hall or from your ward, but it isn't one giant party in the hall because you don't leave your room as often. The dorms are a great living experience in general, but lots of people tend to leave David John after one semester. This is mostly because of missions and other personal reasons, but also because it is so much like Heritage minus the kitchen which a lot of people wish they had. It's a weird in between dorm and apartment and some people just do better in an apartment. I think a lot of people just don't know what David John is about and so they are hesitant to try it or just don't know what they are getting themselves into when they sign up for a room here. I would encourage you to check out my post about Hinckley Hall and the other dorms for more information about Heleman Halls life because everything else is still the same. There are kitchen supplies for check out, vending machines, a kitchen in the basement, basement storage, etc... I hope this helps anyone who was just as frustrated as me at the lack of information out there about the dorms :)
-Brittany


Wednesday, August 3, 2016

What College Students want Incoming Freshmen to Know

What College Students want Incoming Freshmen to Know

Dearest Freshmen,
     As I am preparing to go back to school, I can't lie, I'm getting pretty pumped! I leave my home, my friends and my family behind to go back across the country and I am absolutely, 100% thrilled. I can remember back to my grade school years dreading the back to school commercials and that first day back and the end of summer. The thing about going back to college is, it's like summer never ends! 
     Sure, the weather will eventually get brutally cold eventually and there will be class and tests and papers, college is the 4(+) years where you are always hanging out with friends and there will always be something to do. So freshman, GET EXCITED!
     But there's something very special about that freshman year of college that you don't really find in your other years of college because everything is so new (unless of course you transfer or something). As much as I am excited to go back to school this year, things will not be the same as when I was a freshman and I'm kinda bummed about it. So, this is my advice to you, as college freshman (especially those at BYU), to make the most of your very unique experience.

Meet Everyone

Welcome week, move in, freshman weekend, whatever your school calls it, this is the best time to meet everyone you can. It's perfect because everyone at this point is very open to meeting new people, making new friends and the best part is whatever you're feeling (scared, excited, nervous, anxious) everyone else there is probably going through the exact same thing. You'd be surprised how many people you have a lot in common with. So meet everyone. Don't just find one small group of people and call it good. Get the phone number of that really cool person you share a hobby in common with who also has a car. Invite them to go do that activity sometime (and maybe they can drive you). Ask if you can tag along in a group that's playing sand volleyball that first night. You never know who you might get along with best and trust me, friend groups and the people you get meals with change so many times between welcome week and the last day of school. 

Get Involved

I know this is pretty cliche, but if you don't find one thing to drag a friend or roommate to every Tuesday night, you might find it hard to get out on a weeknight and find things to do. This also allows you to meet people you may have never even run into before. I met a lot of people just by auditioning for one of the choirs, being in a concert band, and attending ASL club once a week. At BYU they have club night every Tuesday where any club from country line dancing to ping pong meet just to do something fun with other people and make new friendships. If you're not one who's comfortable going to club meetings alone, find a roommate or someone in your hallway who might be interested in a hobby you enjoy. Invite them to go to club night early on and they will most likely be very thrilled to have plans and someone to do them with. 

Do Your Research

And yes, research for a project is important, but I'm not talking about that kind of research. I'm talking about your campus and places near by. Don't have a car? Know the good restaurants and events going on around campus that you can walk to. When does that really good food place have half priced fries? (Probably Friday) Where's the best smoothie place in town? It's good to make a list of places that you would like to visit and activities going on throughout the year so that you can be able to make exciting plans for your slow nights. There were so many places I wish I would have known were within walking distance from my dorm in August rather than April when I was too worried about finals to go rollerskating for $1. Fridays would have become a tradition a lot sooner with my squad had we known that the most amazing fries ever were only like $1. Ask your tour leaders, your RAs, and older students where the cool places are. What should I do before I go home for Christmas? What are your favorite places to spend a Friday night? Make sure you write them down for future reference.

Limit Your Binge

I too have caught myself in a habit where pushing the "next episode" button became the most eventful thing I did that night. Criminal Minds is my Binge of choice. Netflix is amazing, especially for those late nights where you can't sleep, watching movies with friends late at night, or for those nights where everyone else seems to be busy and you're left in your room alone for the night. But don't let the urge to finish that season of Gilmore Girls keep you from seeking to make plans, study, or get out of your room just to go to a class or to get a meal. When you're looking forward to cuddling up in bed every night, laptop and all, you can miss out on some really fun opportunities. I can't tell you how many times just me having my door open or being on a walk down the hallway has led to a spontaneous, super awesome adventure I would have not experienced had I decided to pull up Netflix. I'm not saying don't renew your subscription because you'll never get out, I'm saying you need to get outside sometimes so that you are available to make plans. You can't always rely on a text from a buddy on the other side of campus to have plans this Friday night. 

Do it All

Now, this might look a little different for you depending on what you are expecting out of your freshman year or what you imagine it to be like, but hear me out. Make a bucket list. I know it's cheesy, but just do it. Make it look nice and hang it up somewhere you'll be able to see it often. You're more likely to actually do it if you write it out and display it. Anytime you find yourself with a lot of free time or you feel like your year is just flying by, check your list. Put stars or checks by the things you've done and make a note of those things you still want to do but haven't done. That night swim in a hot spring still sound like a good idea? Great! Round up some friends one night and do it! Still want to go stargazing? Great! Grab some pillows, blankets and buddies and do it! You will feel like you got so much more out of freshman year doing something that you really wanted to do at the beginning of the year, and being able to see all the things you checked off. Don't forget to take pictures or videos to look back on later!

Those are the things I think are most important to making your freshman year a lot of fun. Just be you, get out there and put in some effort looking. It's college, a good time can't be too far away! Live it up, have fun and Go Cougs!

-Brittany Stamas

Friday, April 15, 2016

My Fears About College

My Fears About College

What you should and shouldn't fear about attending college

So, about this time last year, I was absolutely freaking out about college. I mean, it was pretty understandable. I was going to a new state that I had only visited once, in a new climate, a new culture, and a new stage of life with no older siblings or friends to give me any advice! So for those of you headed out of state, 15 minutes from home, with no older mentor to give you advice, or the siblings who don't want to take advice from their family, I'm here to tell you about what I feared the most going into college and what actually happened once I got here.

Culture Shock

One thing you should know about my school is that there are people from ALL OVER THE WORLD! But because the students are mostly from Utah, Idaho, Arizona, Texas and California, I knew I was in for a culture shock. I was afraid my midwest slang would be unwelcome, or that I would be on the outside of a lot of inside jokes. 

One thing I failed to recognize was that I wasn't going to be the only one around NOT from one of the main 5 states! There ended up being 1 girl from Ohio, 1 from Michigan, and like 5 from North Carolina on my floor alone! There was a bit of a culture shock with how sober the campus was and not hearing curse words or drugs and alcohol being a common occurrence, but I actually really enjoyed getting to know the norms of other states as well as finding the similarities between my slang and other slang. Once you really get to be around people a lot and make new friends, you can create your own slang. 

Clothing

I searched just about every picture and every article on Pinterest about how to dress in Utah or how to dress in college. I thought maybe some of my more eccentric pieces would be seen as weird, or my preppy pieces to be seen as "stuck up". I feel like other schools seem to have a stereotype as to how everyone else dresses, or you at least know someone going to that university so you can social media stalk them to see what they wear. Well, unlike Miami University in Miami, OH where everyone dresses preppy, BYU did not have a single stereo type that I could find on the internet. I knew of the Honor Code and how that put a strict set of standards on what could and couldn't be worn on campus, the rest was left up to my judgement. 

So what did I do? I took ALL my clothes. They barely fit in the closet, and even on my first day in Utah, I was stressed. I was comparing myself to everyone else I came in contact with, I freaked out about what to wear in my ID picture (even though you only see maybe 3 inches of fabric from my shirt) and I still couldn't pick up a particular trend that seemed to be "in". What I came to find out about BYU was that it was so diverse, THERE WAS NO TREND! Other than the BYU swag that everyone seemed to have in common on game day, there was no right thing to wear! (Trust me, there is a wrong and there are plenty of people dressing like they were homeschooled their whole life but that's to be expected among a select few in a Mormon community) In general, everyone just rocked a look that they stuck to and no one thought anything different about it. Hipster? Be a full out hipster. Thrift store eclectic modern chic? Awesome! More power to you! Preppy and southern? Flaunt those pearls! Just pick something you love and own it! It's amazing how people will appreciate your style the more you own it. Just wear what makes you happy!

Making Friends

Leaving everything and everyone I know to go to school for several months at a time was probably one of the scariest things for me in the transition to college. When I'm comfortable, I'm a huge extrovert, but I do have some social anxiety in new circumstances. So having to make all new friends and knowing no one before hand was an intimidating task. 

Can I just say, I found the most amazing friends my freshman year, and I am so grateful for them. But  instead of going on an on about how amazing they are and all the cool things we've done (maybe another blog post later?) I've been reflecting on how I met all these great people and what I did in order to make so many awesome friends. 

Ok, so I might seem like a huge nerd, but the first thing I did was buy a package of Oreos and pretty much drag my roommate out of the room before dinner on move-in day and just knock on every door in the hallway and offer Oreos to everyone we met. Did I make any life-long friends that night? No. Get anyone to go with me to dinner? No, but the girls on my floor have told me that they remember when we stopped by on that first day and how they knew my name and face from that day on and also had a very positive opinion of me and my roommate. Later, when we were able to get to know one another better, we already had a pretty good foundation. Living in the dorms was my saving grace. I was able to have so many opportunities to get to know people on my floor and spend a lot of time with them without ever leaving my hallway. 

Once I got to know a few pretty sweet girls, we made a group message to pretty much set up times to get meals together or invite people to go on adventures. Saying yes to going on spontaneous adventures were ways that I was really able to bond with my new found friends. Also extending the invitation myself, while it didn't always work out, was a good way to get over my social anxiety and feel more like I was at home with my old friends.

To meet other people outside of my hall, all I can really say is get involved. I play French Horn, so I auditioned for the Symphonic Band and made some pretty cool friends that ultimately got me a couple dates and some pretty sweet parties/event invites. I went to church every Sunday, participated in my church events and tried to go to every social function put on by the school that seemed worth going to. Check out club night, go swing dancing with that girl on your hall you kind of know. There's a dance put on by your residence hall? Take a few friends or roommates and go! You may not meet new people every time, but you will have a lot more fun than you would if you spent the night inside watching Netflix. Don't get me wrong, a Netflix binge is therapeutic every once in a while, but people won't get to know you if you lock yourself up every free minute you have. Take a risk and get out of the house! Every time I've taken one of those risks, it's worked out pretty well. 

Roommate Problems

Guys, I don't think you understand how much I freaked out when I first found out who my roommate was. I was chilling in the Magic Kingdom on spring break when I got a text from an unknown number saying, "Hey! Im your roommate at BYU this fall, Millie!" I was so excited to start getting to know her, but when I began scrolling through her Instagram and Facebook page, I instantly flipped. I seriously don't know anyone else in this world so different in personality from me than Millie. (While still being a kind and good person at least) She is an introvert, I'm not. She is minimalistic, I'm not. She likes music I didn't even know existed because I'm too busy listening to my annoying pop tunes and musical theater. (I like my music, but I know I have a crappy taste in music) I am very orderly and can't stand my room or things to be out of order for too long, while she's not a slob, she isn't so bothered by a mess like I am. Seriously though, we laugh about how incredibly different we are all of the time. Don't get me wrong, we do have plenty of things in common like our religion, that we're the oldest sibling, and our appreciation for Ke$a (My guilty pleasure). When I was wanting to coordinate our room decor, I can remember completely freaking out because she didn't seem to care what our room looked like and her taste was so different from mine. I was devastated. She was also from Utah, so I figured she would have a lot of people that she knew at BYU and she would go home a lot, so I wouldn't have anyone to go to dinner or parties with. 

But when push comes to shove, we made it through. I was never sick of her, I was never overly annoyed with her (There will always be something that might get on each other's nerves every once in a while, but never enough to cause an argument) and when you're both concerned with being considerate of the other, you tend to get along fine. Honestly, we are great friends now. We aren't inseparable and I definitely feel closer to a few of my other friends, but there was nothing to be afraid of. I've been told having a roommate is a little like marriage. If you work hard at making it work, be considerate of the other's needs, and communicate, you'll make it through the year. And if you aren't best friends at the end of it all, that's ok. You just have to live with each other for a year. If you do get unlucky and find yourself with a slob, inconsiderate, spoiled, all over bad person (not very likely) then hey, you're forced to get out and make more friends! So that's a plus!

That's a Wrap!

So, those were my main concerns about leaving for college. (I know, academics should be #1, but sorry, that was my last worry) I hope this will be able to help some of you prospective freshmen. I know it's a little cliche, but honestly, all the advice you see on every Pinterest post is so true. Just do you and play it by ear. You'll be fine. I mean, most people make it out of college just fine. My parting words of wisdom would be this: Don't wait for things to happen to you. Be proactive and get stuff done. You may never get to know that really cute and nice guy in your band if you don't first open up and show an interest in him. Be yourself and everything will work out the way it is supposed to be. Ciao!

Sunday, April 3, 2016

Why is David John Hall so different?


So, it turns out that when I applied to be an RA in Heleman Halls next year, I figured that I would be living in either Hinckley again or maybe in one of the other girls halls that are the same layout. However, this was not the case and it turns out that for the 2016-2017 school year at BYU Provo, I will be living in David John 1100 hall. I found out that there are actually zero pictures of the inside of the rooms in David John and pretty much no information about the rooms anywhere (or at least the kind of information that I would like) so I will have to be contacting someone living there currently if I can check out their rooms before I leave this semester. But after a quick tour of the hall and maybe a bit of wandering every hall, I have come across some details about what makes David John different from every other dorm building in Heleman.

Accessibility

One thing about David John is that it does not have an elevator. This shouldn't be a problem for me since I will be on the first floor next year, but I feel deeply sorry for anyone who is on the third floor on move in/out day. 

Room Layout

The obvious difference is that it is a suite-style dorm. Residents share a bedroom with one roommate, and then share a bathroom with the two girls next door to them. The sink area is separated from the shower and toilet by a door, so you can be brushing your teeth or blow-drying your hair while your roommate is taking a shower. The one bad thing though is that the bathroom is small, but so is your bedroom. There is hardly any room to do anything but sleep and sit at your desk. You're going to have to get creative with storage and multi-purpose items.

Extra Loung Space

Because bathrooms are within the walls of your dorm, boys are allowed on the hall during the same times they are allowed in the lobby area of any building (8 am-midnight all nights and 8 am-1:30 am Fridays) Visitors can either wander the halls during this time or chill in your floor's very own lounge area! I thought this was so neat when I first toured the halls. The thing is, the lobby of Hinckley this year was the place for ward prayer, meeting up with FHE groups, and then all of the couples. It was never the ideal place to study. But even though boys can be in that lounge, it had more of a private feel than the lobby did. PLUS you only have to share it with about 36 girls! They are very roomy and have plenty of sitting space. 

BONUS!!!

In these lounge areas, there is a toaster, microwave, sink and cupboard space. Have a freezer meal you want to heat up real quick? Don't want to walk all the way to the lobby or to the basement? Awesome! You don't have to! You can also clean your dishes, iron your clothes (there is an ironing board and iron) or make some toast. There isn't much room to store dishes in your room, but if you trust the girls in your hall, you can just store them in the cupboards! Seriously, this is a great feature. While it's not a full kitchen, there is still an oven, stove and full fridge/freezer open to all residents in the basement.

Less People

I don't know if anyone really cares, but each hall has about 4 less people than a typical hall in the dorms. So that's less treats to bring to a hall activity and more opportunities to get close to the girls on your floor.

Drawbacks

The only things I can really think of without having lived there is the fact that 1. You have to clean your own bathroom (but you have three people to help you out), it costs a little more than the regular dorms and the rooms are significantly smaller than the other dorms. But honestly, you don't need to do much in your room except sleep, maybe do homework and take care of yourself.

Still a Dorm at Heleman

You have everything else that life at Heleman Halls offers. RHA activities, an RA, hall council, the Cannon Center and mini Creamery just a couple hundred feet from your room, 24/7 vending machine access, and there is also a parking lot right behind the building. Honestly, if you're worried about a community bathroom, I have never had to wait on a shower or toilet this year so if bathrooms are your concern, I don't know if David John is worth the extra $100 a month, but if you want that suite-style experience and are willing to pay more, GO FOR IT! 

If you are a freshman for the Fall-Winter year of 2016-2017 and are living in Heleman, Please contact me! I can answer your questions much better than the housing people can because I actually lived here and can tell you exactly what you need to hear. Please don't hesitate to shoot me an email with any question you might have! 
brittanystamas@gmail.com

Monday, February 8, 2016

College Packing List

College Packing List
My bags when I took off for college

What I ACTUALLY Brought to College (and what I ACTUALLY used)

If you’re headed off to your freshman year of college and totally flipping out over what you need to pack, what you should buy there, etc… then you’re just like I was about this time last year. I’m sure you’ve been searching all over Pinterest for all of the packing lists and the helpful advice. That’s exactly what I did. You know, those lists are great, but we all know that you are going to personalize it for yourself anyways, so I thought I would go ahead and share exactly what I brought to college, how I used it, and how much I used it.

Bed:

Let’s start with your bed. I’m sure most of these things are a no brainer, but I will appease the “complete list-maker” in all of us by leaving no detail out. 
Mattress Protector (Only get bedbug protection if you’re in an area with bedbugs)
Mattress Topper (If you’re going to have a crappy mattress, I suggest the 2 inch)
Fitted Sheet/Regular Sheet 2 pair (Yes get 2, and know how big your mattress will be)
Quilt/Comforter (Do what you want here, climates also vary) 
Blanket or Two (This can be a t-shirt quilt, tied blanket or a fleece, but you’ll want one)
Body Pillow and Pillow case (This is nice to keep you from the cold, cinderblock wall)
Sleeping Pillow of choice (I LOVE my memory foam but we are all different)
Crappy $3 pillow to put your matching sham on (You know, the free one that came with the comforter you bought)
1 or 2 Fun decorative pillows (Too much on the bed gets annoying)
Back Rest Pillow (For if you’re not a fan of the body pillow. They are nice for studying in bed)

Bathroom:

This is a list assuming you live in a dorm with a community bathroom. No need for TP is it’s provided for you!
Shampoo/Conditioner (get the big one, value sized. Know how much you use in a year and get that much. I only use one of the Herbal Essences Long Term Relationship bottles and they last me all year)
Body Wash (Again, know how much you use in a year and get it now. No one wants to go shopping for toiletries, they are more expensive on campus, and what if you forget to buy more? I use a big bottle and a smaller bottle of Olay)
Loufa/washing device (Whatever you prefer, but if it’s a cheap loufa, I’d get two or three. If you get a loufa, also get a suction cup hook that you can put in the shower and hang it on. It comes in handy!)
Shaving cream (Your favorite smells and make sure they last all year as well)
Razor and Razor heads (One package of refill should do it. Don’t be cheap with this one, TREAT YO SELF! No one wants razor burn before a big date)
Shower Caddy (That can fit it all and won’t hold water)
SHOWER SHOES (Just an old pair of flip flops to keep your toes off the gross floor)
A Bathrobe/wrap (No one likes stripping in the shower stalls. Get a robe)
Skin Care (Whatever you are using now on your skin. Know your skin now and also be prepared to change routines. The climate in Utah is MUCH different than Ohio, so my skin went crazy. I had to try so many different products before finding a routine that worked)
Lotions
Pampering Stuff (This is your sugar scrub, face masks, whatever. There will be a spa night. Be prepared)
Towels (At least 2 and maybe put your initial on them. I love mine monogrammed!)
Washcloths/hand towels (I have 2 wash clothes and 1 hand towel. It’s up to you)
Hair Towel (Love my Twisty Turban and I use them every time I shower!)
Nail Care (Clippers, polish, remover, file… everything. Buy a kit if you want to)
FHP (Feminine Hygiene Products. Enough to get you through about 9 months. Unless you don’t mind buying them from the store on campus and lugging them back to your room unlike me, then buy all you’ll need)
Cotton Balls, Q-tips and Cotton Pads
Hand Soap (If you have a sink in the room, you’ll want some hand soap of your own)

Laundry:

Hampers (I use two so I can sort my lights from my darks before I get to the laundry room)
Detergent (Use what you’ve got at home currently to avoid allergic reactions. I went through 2 Tide with Downy liquid containers in a year which is about 80 loads)
Dryer Sheets (Again, what you’ve got at home and about 80 will do for the year)
Lint Rollers (Yes, you’ll need them)
Delicates pouches (If you’re in to that)
Stain remover
Quarters/ID card (depending on what the laundry facility takes for payment)
Iron/Mini Ironing board (I don’t like wrinkles. I found a $5 iron that works great and a miniature ironing board that fits on my desk for quick ironing sprees)
Steamer (Again, I hate wrinkles)
Spray bottle (For water and a bit of fabric softener. Great for an overnight spritz to get wrinkles out of T-shirts, sweatshirts and any other loose fabrics. Faster than ironing)

School Supplies

This will vary depending on your schedule, major, the whole nine yards. Get your supplies from your bookstore LAST. The prices are always higher and you can find everything you need at a Staples, Office Max or other office supply store for much less.
Computer (You want a laptop/tablet. Get one that works for you)
Headphones
DVD Port (if your computer doesn’t come with one)
DVD case (for all your DVD’s if you have any)
Pens and pencils (As many as you needed in high school)
Sharpies (A standard pack will do. I enjoy multiple colors)
Scissors (You’re an adult now, get the big ones)
White out (I use it)
5 different color highlighters (5 is my suggestion)
Loose-leaf Paper and White Computer paper (Whether you have a printer or not, white paper always comes in handy)
Notebooks (I suggest one for each class. Make sure they are college ruled, durable, and I enjoy having ones with pockets in the front. 5 Star is a good brand)
Small Notepad (For all of your lists!)
Thumbtacks
A few rubberbands
Small thumb drive
Super glue
Duct tape
Tape
Stapler and staples
Holepunch
Post-its
Dry Erase Markers (If you have a dry erase board/calander)
Some kind of a planner (This could be given to you at orientation, a big calendar, your phone, whatever but somewhere you can display all of your due dates.
Pencil Sharpener
Envelopes, stamps and cards (to write to your friends and family)
Sewing Kit (I’ve used mine on many occasions)
Ruler
Lots of index cards and something to keep them in
Textbooks and other class materials (duh)
Bookbag
Pencil Pouch

Food:

You’re going to want your comfort food. Especially your first week. There are also plenty of opportunities to get to know others through sharing food. Get enough for you as well as to share. You know you best. Get what you’re going to need. Breakfast bars, granola bars, hot chocolate packets, popcorn, whatever your heart desires at 2 a.m.
Paper plates (be cheap. Get the least expensive ones)
Napkins (Again, be cheap. Grab some extras every time you leave a restaurant)
Spoons and Forks (These disappear quickly)
Soup bowl (if you like soup like me)
Mugs
Ziplock Baggies
Plastic Cups
Reusable water bottles (Save the planet)

Desk:

You’re going to need a place to put all of your supplies. I suggest making a list of everything you need, sort it by what will go where, and figure out what you specifically need to organize your odds and ends. This is just what I got and I currently use.
Drawer organizers (one with 6 cubbies for small things, and a larger with 2)
Letter file (I have four slots in mine)
Magazine organizers (This is for all of the papers I don’t need all the time and don’t want to see as well)
Baskets/Bins (Again, to hide all of your crap)
Something for your pens and pencils you will use all the time (A mug, an organizer, whatever you’re feeling and organizes well)
Lighting (if your desk does not have lighting, get a table lamp or something so you can study without bugging your roommate at night)
Dry Erase Calendar (I have a paper planner that is more detailed as well as a monthly calendar that is dry erase on my desk. It allows me to see all of my deadlines as well as other important dates so I never miss a deadline)
Your handy-dandy bible/scriptures or other reading books

Clothes:

I plan on creating another post about what a college girl needs in her wardrobe, but here are a few things you will want in your closet.
Jewelry organizer/containers (I got a great hanging organizer from amazon Buy it Here and I keep my stud earrings in a small jewelry box)
Scarf organizer (I got mine from Ikea)
Shoe organization (Figure out how your closet is set up and whether or not you need bins or a shoe organizer. I bought an organizer and never used it)
Drawer liners (They make your clothes smell better and make life less gross)
Drawer dividers (I used an adjustable set for my sock drawer)
Bins for odds and ends (belts, hats, gloves, blanket scarves, everything you have on your list)
Hangers (Make a list of your wardrobe. Find out how you will hang your clothes and plan accordingly. I have 18 skirts and I use two skirt hangers with 4 tiers and a separate skirt hanger. I doubled up on all three. Also, use the skinniest hangers you can find. It allows maximum capacity. Have 10-15 extra hangers for anything you might acquire later in the year.)
Hanging storage (if you want and can make it fit. You just need to know your wardrobe and your closet)

Everything Else

Lap desk
Decorations (again, see the post about how to decorate your dorm room)
Medicine
Toothbrushes and toothpaste
An umbrella
Command Products
Seating (A camp chair is something I wish I had)
Seasonal items (Christmas is no fun without decorations)
Trashcan (you will want your own under your desk)
Clothing drying rack (if you have clothes that need to be line dried)
A lanyard for your keys
Tissues
Cleaning supplies (Sometimes they are provided, but I suggest getting 2 packs of Clorox wipes, windex, a duster, paper towels, light bulbs and trash bags to fit your trashcan. A couple of rags would also be nice if not provided)
Air freshener (If your roommate doesn’t mind, get a wallflower or fabreeze. Dorms smell weird and it can make a huge difference. Bath and Body Works Wallflower replacements last about a month. Get 9 different scents you both like)
STORAGE BINS! (Know what you are bringing and plan accordingly. Know where everything will go and if it has no home, make one!)
Command hook are your best friend (I use the picture frame strips, small hooks, large hooks, all the hooks! I have one my my door for my keys and another for the door stopper, one for my hats, a few for other decorations, small ones for Christmas lights, one to keep my cords off the floor, one to keep my charger on my desk when it’s not plugged in, and two for door decorations. You can never have too many command hooks and replacement backs.
Step stool (If you’re short like me and need to raise your bed or get into your closet, get a nice, sturdy step stool that you like. I use mine daily)
Luggage and bags (obviously luggage so you can travel home, an overnight bag is nice for weekend trips, a drawstring or two never hurt and your go-to clutch as well as the over the shoulder bag. All of these have come in handy since I have been in college)

That’s everything I have in my dorm room! I hope you found this useful and if you have any questions about whether you should bring something to college or not, leave a comment! Thanks guys!

-Brittany

Saturday, January 30, 2016

Creating a Mature Dorm Room



Creating a Mature Dorm Room

So, you’re headed off to college? Congrats! You’re finally free from the worst and best years of your life! Trust me, you’ll look back fondly on the years spent at your high school, but college is so much better, you’ll cringe at the thought of being a high schooler again. One thing I really hated about preparing for college was all the uncertainty about where I would be living. Once I found out exactly where I was staying, I got to work on dreaming up the perfect dorm room. Trust me, I’ve seen every dorm room picture on Pinterest, read every blog post about how to decorate your room, and honestly I still couldn’t decide what I wanted! I felt like everything I saw on Pinterest was either unrealistic (all of the Ole Miss dorm rooms) or something that a Tween would do to their room. My style is very HGTV inspired, and I’ve seen so many designer spaces, I wanted my room to be nothing less! But I just couldn’t get inspired! The frustrating thing about living in a dorm is that you’ll most likely be given white cinderblock walls, ugly multicolored carpet, and furniture all a very fake and dull looking shade of wood…. AND YOU CAN’T CHANGE ANY OF IT! Sometimes, it’s hard to make due with what you’ve already got. Trust me, my room was nothing special when I first started moving in. While I really enjoyed all of the cute Pinterest pictures where roommates coordinated their bedspreads and matched everything, I knew that would be unrealistic. Especially if I won’t live with the same person every year of school. So how did I go about designing and decorating my dorm room? I’ll tell you!

The Bed

I started with the bed spread. Duh, it’s the biggest way to add color to your room and is probably the largest surface you have control over. I couldn’t buy anything for my room until I got out to school since I flew out to Utah, so I did a lot of online shopping. I really just couldn’t decide if I liked patterns or solid colors or really what I wanted! I was wanting to know what my roommate picked out so that I could at least get something that wouldn’t clash, but I also just wanted something I could start drawing a color scheme from. After all is said and done I regret my choice in comforter. While I do like that no one on my hall has my comforter and that it is Kate Spade and a classier print, I really think going with a textured, solid color like grey or white would have allowed me to do more with my space. But also, there is a lot of white in my room and I do like the dark color to help balance out the space. You can say my comforter and I are in a love-hate relationship right now. 

Color Scheme

From there, I chose my color scheme. Since my bedspread was navy and white, I wanted white to be one of my neutral colors, but I needed more than navy to combat all the white in my room. Dark colors make spaces seem smaller, so I thought lighter, earthier tones would compliment the hardness of the navy. I decided on a light grey, dusty blue tones, a very small dash of pink (for contrast) and metallic elements. I lucked out that my textbooks fit my color scheme, so I could display those on my desk. My perfume is just the tiniest dash of pink my desk needed, and I incorporated dusty blues with artwork, pictures and some décor. I did mostly stick to the whites and greys. 

The Desk


Other than the bed, there is only one other large area to be decorated in my tiny dorm room: The desk area. My desk is built in to the wall and has two floating shelves above it. The desk is HUGE and just screamed for decorations and office supplies. I drew my inspiration for decorating my desk from this picture on Pinterest. I love the use of depth as well as the very organized flow it has going on. I didn’t find this post until my second semester and ended up re-decorating my desk area. I love how it turned
out. I decided to take down all of the clutter from the memo board wall I have on the wall directly behind my desk and only put up my super chic, dry erase calendar. Different sized picture frames in neutral colors were my best friend, and I even created some custom artwork to add some color to my very neutral shelves. When it came to my actual desk top, the less square footage, the better. I only put things in the back corners and along the back (other than my computer) so that my desk didn’t feel or look cluttered. I really love how my desk looks professional and not too busy. It allows me to think clearer when doing homework and not get so distracted. The three large bins on the top shelf and the two smaller ones on the side were real life savers. I just threw all of the crap I don’t want on my desk or in plain sight, but need to access every now in then in these and they practically disappeared! If you would rather use pictures that mean a lot to you in the picture frames rather than artwork or prints, I would suggest choosing pictures that are naturally pretty neutral in
color or that fit in your color scheme. If you have a picture that doesn’t fit this description, a perfect solution would be to just print it in black and white. I’m also a huge fan of being tastefully quirky.You may have noticed my metallic pineapple on the second first shelf. This was a steal for $4 at my local thrift store and I could not be happier to have found it! I love incorporating quirky thrift store finds into design. If you find a piece that you love but you don’t think it will fit in with your design plan, simply spray paint it a metallic color or a neutral black/white/grey. It’s amazing at how these pieces fit right in with all your other décor, but also bring a smile to your face! 

Decorations

When it came to decorations on my walls, I really didn’t know what to do. It’s crucial to put something up so that you don’t look like you’re living in prison, but also I feel too old and sophisticated for posters or a photo wall (that’s just me). I did have a photo wall for a short while but took it down right after winter break. The first thing I would suggest is to get two or three strands of Christmas lights. (The white ones, not the colorful ones and not the green ones). These lights look so cool at night when you’re just chilling in your room and don’t want to turn the florescent lights on. Using command hooks, you can string them across your ceiling in a crisscross fashion or simply line
your perimeter with them. They’re great. My dorm has a strict “no nails and no tape” rule. If you hang something on the wall, it’s going to be with a command product or sticky tack. Command products can do wonders… if you have a flat surface. Cinderblock walls are not flat. It can still be done, but know that you can’t have heavy things hang from command hooks on cinder block walls. I had a picture frame fall and break because it was too heavy. There are really cool picture frame strips that act like Velcro that hold up my frames really well and also reduce the need for a hook. The only problem is you have to buy new ones every time you take them down. When putting up pictures on the walls, again try and use neutral colors or colors that fit within your scheme (especially if they are large) I would also suggest using all the same color frames/matting. Coordinating frame colors is organized and classy. Sometimes it looks nice if you mix a neutral color with metallics and colors
in a well planned out gallery wall, but if you’re not feeling as adventurous there, the same color is a good rule of thumb. THIS DOES NOT MEAN EACH FRAME HAS TO LOOK THE SAME! Mixing different frames adds character and is encouraged! The same frame looks boring on a gallery wall. Ikea has a lot of good, cheap options or you can also paint cheap thrift store frames. I woulalso recommend having a white matte on in each frame regardless of which color frame you choose. It just looks clean. Mix up sizes and orientations of your frames to add interest. Another great idea is to paint an abstract piece of art on a canvas with your color scheme and make it the focal point of a big, blank space in your room such as above/next to your bed or any large, empty space. This adds color and can tie your bedspread into the rest of your décor as well. (It also just looks more expensive and mature) 

Organization


One of the best ways to keeping your room looking like it came out of a magazine is to get it organized and keep it that way. Create a master list of everything you’re going to need in your room at school. (Clothes, shoes, school supplies, toiletries, etc…) Separate them into categories based on what you might keep together. (Hair ties with bobby pins and brushes) Now, think about the space you have in your room. Where would it make sense to keep these things? (School supplies in desk, toiletries by sink) Considering the size of the objects and where you want to store them, think of exactly where each item will go and make sure you have enough containers to store everything. I have 9 storage bins under my bed. One for t shirts, one for sweatshirts, sweaters, jeans, pajamas, linens, cleaning supplies, bags, and my refills on toiletries. I keep all my hair products in a medium basket by my desk, school supplies in another, my electronics and random odds and ends in three large baskets on my shelf, food in four large plastic drawers, medicine and skin care products in a smaller plastic drawer, makeup in small basket by the sink, clothes and shoes in the closet, jewelry on an organizer in the closet, belts in a plastic bin, and papers in a letter tray. Everything in my room has a place, so nothing looks sloppy or like an accident. It also makes it much easier to stay clean and to clean up knowing exactly where everything belongs. 


I hope you enjoyed this post as well as the pictures of my first dorm room! Any questions I'd be happy to answer so that you can be confident in creating your own home away from home!

Best of luck!
-Brittany

Friday, January 29, 2016

Hinckley Hall BYU

The Dets on Hinckley Hall
Getting ready to live in Heleman Halls at BYU? Not sure what to buy or what the room looks like? Look no further! I have all the details you'll need!

Measurements
I went through and got a rough measurement of each area in my dorm room in Hinckley Hall. If you're going to be living in another hall, don't worry. The measurements are pretty much the exact same. If you go to the BYU On-Campus Housing Page Here and click on Heleman Halls, the pictures are a pretty adequate depiction of what the room looks like. Hinckley is a shared room with a sink, and I believe David John is the only shared suite style room. So Chipman, Stover and all the rest look like the first two pictures.  Everything here is pretty much all you need to know if you are planning to move into Heleman soon. Here are the measurements I came up with:

Room Dimensions

Desk Area
Desk top: 46.5x23 inches
Desk Height: 26 inches
Desk Top to First Shelf: 20 inches
Desk Drawer: 9.25x18.75x2 inches
Shelves Under Drawer: 23x10.5x8.25 inches
Bottom Floating Shelf: 47x12x13 inches
Upper Floating Shelf: 47x12x19 inches
Bulletin Area on Back Wall: 46.5x16 inches
Bulletin Area on Sides: 23x52 inches with interruptions from the shelves
*4 plug outlet, one desk has wifi cord, hole in back of desk for cords, bulletin board material on walls can take pushpins but is not very deep and can’t hold heavy things, there is a light under the first floating shelf.

Closet
Drawers: 21x18.5x5.5 inches
Top Shelf: 46x22x12 inches
Shoe Shelf: 23x22x9.5 (height adjustable)
*You can lock the top shelf, the shoe shelf is adjustable for different heights, there is a mirror on the inside of the short closet door and a towel rod and towel hook on the longer door, I fit 5 coats, 10 dresses, 2 skirt hangers with 16 skirts on them, a jewelry and scarf organizer, 5 jackets, 17 cardigans, 7 vests, and 40 hanging tops with little wiggle room on the rod.

Bed
Twin XL that can be set at 20 inches off the ground or 32 inches off the ground. They are brand new beds and mattresses so they are pretty comfortable. If you’re someone who likes their beds really soft then you might want a small mattress pad but if you sleep on just a regular mattress at home and are fine with it then this mattress on its own should be fine for you. Personally, I think it is really nice and have never been uncomfortable. If you do raise the bed to 32 inches, you are going to want a step stool to help you get into bed. Trust me.

Sink Area
Sink Top: 30x20 inches with sink in the middle leaving about 5 inches on each side
Under Sink: 30x20x28 inches with a pipe towards the back and this is also where the small trash can is located when you move in.

Fridge
The fridge is a standard mini fridge with a small freezer compartment and different shelves. You can fit a good amount of stuff in this fridge and a full size fridge is available in the basement of the building and is shared with everyone in the hall. Be careful what you put in the fridge in the basement though. Anything unmarked could be taken and the fridge and freezer fill up fast. I suggest only buying what you need on a weekly basis and going to the creamery once a week to restock so you can keep your mini fridge in your room as your main source of food storage.

Storage
There are multiple storage units down in the basement which are a great place to keep luggage, (if you don’t plan on traveling often) seasonal equipment like skiis, and maybe even seasonal clothes like big coats. These are open during move-in and are locked during the semester and can only be unlocked by an RA. The thing is, RA’s aren’t available at all hours on every day. I would only store things you don’t want in your room until you ABSOLUTELY need them. The thing about Heleman rooms is that there is little storage room. The desk is plenty of room to keep your office supplies, books, makeup, hair stuff, etc… but I found that a lot of my clothing didn’t fit in the closet, and I had no where to store snacks or dishes and other cosmetic things that I might need throughout the semester. I ended up buying 9 plastic drawers from bed bath and beyond to store my jeans, sweaters, sweatshirts, t-shirts, cleaning supplies, bags, pjs and other toiletries. I purchased 2 large, 2 medium and 1 small stackable drawer from the container store that fit nicely between the end of my bed and the mini fridge to store my medicine, food and dishes. Also to save on space, I put my luggage behind the 9 drawers under my bed, I put my ironing board, lap desk and laundry baskets under there too. I wanted to note that my bed is closest to the door and when I propped it open, the door blocks my laundry and part of my first set of drawers. It’s kind of annoying sometimes but it’s manageable. Also, the sink area is just the sink. Under the sink is open and could house some containers for toiletries, but I decided I didn’t want to store my things over there. Also, the room came with one small trash can, but I purchased one of my own as well just so I could keep it under my desk for easy access. It helps reduce the amount of time I spend taking out the trash.

Cleaning
There are cleaning supplies that are available to you. There is a vinegar spray for the sink area that works really well, glass cleaner, vacuums and rags that are for the whole hall to use. They are in a closet near the bathrooms. They also have a few trash bags. I would suggest buying your own Clorox wipes because sometimes it just cleans areas better and also get a duster of some kind. These rooms get dusty real quick for whatever reason so it’s nice to just dust the place down once a week. Cleaning checks happen once a month and aren’t hard to pass at all. There is a clear list of chores to do and it is split evenly between you and your roommate. Everyone in the hall tends to clean at the same time so supplies may be limited during this time (like vacuums, rags and sprays) but if you get it done earlier in the day, it’ll still pass cleaning checks as long as you actually clean. Takes 30 minutes tops. (unless you’re a slob) Also, living in a small space means that you should take time to pick up after yourself often. It doesn’t take much to make your room look like it is super messy.

Extras J
The carpet (if you can’t see in the pictures) is multi-colored with navy, maroon, tan, green, idk it’s just a neutral mix of colors but IT HIDES DIRT AND HAIR! You don’t have to vacuum every week like I would have to at home because everything just blends in which is nice. Don’t let it stress you out when picking décor. Yes, it’s ugly and you wouldn’t pick it for your future home, but no, it won’t clash with your super cute bedspread. TRUST ME. Also, note that the walls are white cinder block. That being said, you cannot use tape, screws or nails to hang anything up. Cinder block makes it hard for command hooks to stick and hold large weights up. If you want to hang picture frames, trust me when I say to get the Velcro picture frame command strips. It’s not a hook, but it holds picture frames up nice and flush with the wall and won’t fall off. I have one for each corner of my picture frames that I hung on the walls. There is a cork strip across the wall your bed is on which is nice to put up a poster or something, but again, it isn’t deep and won’t hold heavy things well. For those printed pictures you want to hang, either use command hooks to hold up a garland of pictures, or sticky tack in each corner of each picture. Yes, it’s a hassle. Yes, it’s time consuming, but it’s what you have to do to not get charged damage fees. Also, note that you can’t use washi tape on anything that was in the room before you arrived. You can put it on your own mirror you brought or your set of drawers but not on anything not belonging to you. The side by the window is always the darkest side. I would invest in a lamp to go on the window sill or Christmas lights to hang by your bed. It makes the world of a difference.


But What Do These Rooms ACTUALLY Look Like?
Here are a couple of pictures of my room before and after moving in:

My Bed Before
The Fridge and Space between the beds


My Bed After Move-In
My Desk After Move-In






































My room has changed throughout the semester, but this is pretty much what every room looks like. It's a decent amount of space and has suited me just fine. I wish I could have decorated it better if I would have known the space and dimensions before coming out to Utah so I could've planned a little better, but I'm satisfied with how my room turned out!

Good luck dorm shopping, and welcome to BYU! You're going to love it!
-Brittany